Pregnancy. What Is The Best Way To Deal With Unwelcomed Belly Touchers?
Pregnancy. I Am Currently 16 And A Half Weeks Pregnant...I'll Be 17 Weeks On Sunday And Would Prefer That No One Touch My Belly Except For My Man Who
Pregnancy : What Is The Best Way To Deal With Unwelcomed Belly Touchers
I am currently 16 and a half weeks pregnant...I'll be 17 weeks on Sunday and would prefer that no one touch my belly except for my man who is the baby's father or our family members or other close friends or acquaintences...I do not want co-workers or strangers to touch me anywhere at any time. What is the best way to deal with these types of people who are freaks about pregnant bellies? ~~~ tjmcallister420 ~~~
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Just say "hey, do you see me rubbing your big butt? No, so don't rub my big belly!"
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Answer 1Step back when you see them coming, or do as my sister in law did, straight out tell people you would prefer them not touch you. They have to respect that, you can even add it causes you discomfort so they don't think you're being nasty.
Answer 2just tell them to simply back off and that you dont like strangers doing touching you... i dont understand,in the uk people would never do that to someone else lol x
Answer 3Well for women, who are usually the unknown touchers you can touch their stomachs and say, "and you, when are you ; Chances are most of them wont be, but the mere thought of looking so may make them a little more cautious to touch another belly. I always though it was so funny when my cousins would cringe when people touched their stomachs, lol, i get it now. You could also invest in a lanyard and attach a little sign that says, "hands off" LOL other then that I am as clueless as you. I pretty much do the startled jump, and bight my tongue. Oh well, only 3 or so more months
Answer 4I am the same way. I hate being touched. I had to tell a ton of co-workers at my job to not touch. Most of them know me well enough to know not to touch, but some touch anyways! I just very politely told them "no petting" and most of them got the hint.
Answer 5Just say "hey, do you see me rubbing your big butt? No, so don't rub my big belly!"
Answer 6cover ur belly...lol or when u see them hide put something over ur stomach.... i know what u mean i hated when ppl were touching me ... i told this one person dont touch me again or ill beat the crap out of u.. she stepped back quick...(but that was someone i didnt like thats y i said that to her)
Answer 7I'm nearly 15 weeks, and it's already happened to me twice this week! One of them was a co-worker who I get on with, so I didn't mind, but the other was a virtual stranger! I hated it, it makes you very uncomfortable, doesn't it? In future I will just back away when I see them "coming in for the rub"! I wouldn't like to say anything. BTW - - I live in the uk too, so it does happen here!
Answer 8I would just tell people straight out. If someone is overly agressive just grab the person's hand and nicely place your other hand over it and just say, I know you are curious but this is my pet peeve. I would probaby be fine with people I know IF they ask first. My friend was pregnant and I asked her if it was okay and she was happy to let me feel. I wouldn't DARE touch a good friend let alone a stranger without asking first and frankly with a stranger I wouldn't even ask. People need to learn to respect our personal space.
Answer 9LOL, I hear you...but lucky for me during my second pregnancy I don't have that problem with strangers touching me, but with my first I did, so I just told them straight out to leave me alone and don't try and rub my belie. Its hard to say to some people (like older ladies) but I mustered up the courage since it is my body !
Answer 10I know exactly how you feel!! I only wanted my husband touching my belly. I don't think some people understand how uncomfortable it is to some of us pregnant women. I actually found a t-shirt that reads "If your not the one that put this baby in my belly, than don't touch it" I've actually considered buying it...lol What I ended up doing in my first pregnancy was simply tell them that I didn't like it or that I was very sensitive. With the older people I just had to suck it in a let them. Good luck. I know how you feel! For cute novelty t-shirts go to
Answer 11Train your baby to kick them hehe, Polietly tell them "no thank you and take a step back"
Answer 12With my first one, I was working so it was a lot more common and a lot of strangers and co-workers. I did the discreet things... taking a step back, keeping my belly covered (with a book or file folder etc) while I talked to people, wrapping my arms around my belly etc. Or, there's the more direct route... slap their hands as they're reaching to touch you, or let them touch you but give a very pointed dirty look to their hand...
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